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Sunday, November 15, 2015

By Faith

Moses has been on my mind a lot lately. At the burning bush, what must have been going through his mind as God called him to go back to the land he had fled from (because he killed an Egyptian) and save the Israelites from whose slavery he and the only family he had really ever known had benefitted greatly? Oh, to top it off, he was slow of speech (Exodus chapters 3 and 4).

Yet despite weakness and everything that could possibly go against him, he went on to accomplish one of the most marked miracles contained in the Bible: 

24 By faith Moses, when he was come to years, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter;

25 Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;

26 Esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt: for he had respect unto the recompence of the reward.


27 By faith he forsook Egypt, not fearing the wrath of the king: for he endured, as seeing him who is invisible.

28 Through faith he kept the passover, and the sprinkling of blood, lest he that destroyed the firstborn should touch them.

29 By faith they passed through the Red sea as by dryland: which the Egyptians assaying to do were drowned. (Hebrews 11: 24-29)

This med school thing seems very do-able in comparison.

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Blessed Are the Covenant Keepers

Last night at 6:00pm, we were asked to speak in church. 


This morning at 11:48am we did. Church ends at 12:00pm.

We were the two concluding speakers with 15-minute talks. Needless to say, we rushed. 


Although I wasn't able to give my full talk, I wanted to keep a copy of it. (I pulled from a few talks and LDS.org explanations.) 
I enjoy preparing talks for Sacrament Meeting because they help me reflect on various topics, and this occasion was especially true.

[Please note, this post is still In need of footnotes.] 



Good afternoon brothers and sisters. I am happy to have the opportunity to speak to you today, especially considering this is only my second week as a member of this wonderful branch. I love this beautiful island, and have already felt a special spirit in this branch; I am looking forward to meeting more of you.


Two weeks ago on Friday, I took a red eye from Salt Lake City to New York City with our 4 and a half year old daughter to begin our journey to Grenada. We had been preparing for the trip for months, and every last thing was in order. However, there was one place I needed to go before I left. The temple. I wanted a reminder of my covenants, the peace the House of the Lord brings, and the opportunity to pray in that sacred place. 


My close friend and I made plans to attend, and everything was in order as the day started. However, things quickly started to fall apart. I was worried I wouldn’t be able to make it, but through persistence and prioritization, I was able to attend and am grateful. 


As members of Christ’s Gospel, we know and recognize that God’s children have, since the beginning of time made covenants. The scriptures are full of evidence of the importance of keeping covenants and the consequences of what has happened when His children have broken them.

A covenant is a sacred agreement between God and a person or group of people. God sets specific conditions, and He promises to bless us as we obey those conditions. 
When we choose not to keep covenants, we cannot receive the blessings, and in some instances we suffer a penalty as a consequence of our disobedience. All the saving ordinances of the priesthood are accompanied by covenants.

We have the restored Gospel of the Messiah, Jesus Christ, here on the earth. When we receive saving ordinances and keep the associated covenants, the Atonement of Jesus Christ becomes effective in our lives, and we can receive the greatest blessing God can give us—eternal life (see D&C 14:7). 


Brothers and sisters, I testify that when make and keep sacred covenants, we are blessed. That is what I would like to focus on this afternoon, and I have broken my talk in to four areas. 


First: when we realize that we are children of the covenant, we know who we are and what God expects of us. 

Children of the covenant are baptized. 
The first principles and ordinances of the Gospel are marked by covenants: Baptism by immersion in water, performed by one having authority, is the first saving ordinance of the gospel and is necessary for an individual to become a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Inseparable from baptism is its companion ordinance of confirmation—the laying on of hands for the gift of the Holy Ghost.  
When we are baptized, we covenant to take upon ourselves the name of Jesus Christ, to always remember Him, and to keep His commandments. We also promise “to serve him to the end” (D&C 20:37; see also Mosiah 18:8–10).In return, Heavenly Father promises that if we repent of our sins, we can be forgiven (see Alma 7:14) and “always have His Spirit to be with [us]” (D&C 20:77), a promise made possible, in part, through receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost. 
The ordinances of baptism and confirmation are the gate through which all who seek eternal life must enter (see John 3:3–5). Honoring our baptismal covenants leads to and is an important part of making the covenants associated with all of the other saving ordinances on the path to eternal life (see 2 Nephi 31:17–21). 
Children of the covenant partake of the Sacrament. 

Those who have received the saving ordinances of baptism and confirmation partake of the sacrament each week to renew those covenants. While partaking of the bread and water, we remember the sacrifice the Savior made for us. In addition, we ponder the covenants we have made to take upon us the name of Jesus Christ, always remember Him, and keep His commandments. In turn, God extends the promise that His Spirit may be with us always (see D&C 20:77, 79). 
The ordinance of the sacrament is an opportunity each week to renew sacred covenants that allow us to be partakers of the Savior’s atoning grace with the same spiritually cleansing effect of baptism and confirmation. Church leaders have also taught that when we take the sacrament, we renew not only our baptismal covenants but “all covenants entered into with the Lord.”4
Children of the covenant attend the temple. 

The temple endowment is a gift that provides perspective and power. 
During the temple endowment we receive instructions and make covenants related to our eternal exaltation. Associated with the endowment are the ordinances of washing and anointing and being clothed in temple garments as a reminder of sacred covenants.6 
Temple ordinances and covenants are so sacred that they are not discussed in detail outside of the temple. Because of that, President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, advised, “It is important that you listen carefully as these ordinances are administered and that you try to remember the blessings promised and the conditions upon which they will be realized.”7 
Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles has taught that the key to receiving divine power to overcome opposition and move the Church forward “is the covenant we make in the temple—our promise to obey and sacrifice, to consecrate unto the Father, and His promise to empower us with ‘a great endowment.’”8

Children of the covenant are sealed in Holy temples. 

The temple ordinance referred to as “temple marriage” or “being sealed” creates an eternal relationship between husband and wife that can last beyond death if the spouses are faithful. Parent and child relationships can also be perpetuated beyond mortality, linking generations together in eternal family relationships.  
When an individual enters into the covenant of marriage in the temple, he or she makes covenants with both God and with his or her spouse. Spouses promise faithfulness to each other and to God. They are promised exaltation and that their family relationships can continue throughout eternity (see D&C 132:19–20). Children born to a couple who were sealed in the temple or children who are later sealed to their parents have the right to be part of an eternal family. 
As in other ordinances, individual faithfulness to our covenants is required for the earthly ordinance to be sealed, or made valid, in heaven by the Holy Spirit of Promise.9 Individuals who keep their covenants—even when their spouse does not—do not forfeit the blessings promised in the sealing.

Secondly, knowing the expectations God has for us helps us recognize examples of covenants and covenant keeping people. 

While speaking to the church in General Conference in October 2011, Elder Russell M. Nelson pointed out that "Through the ages, God has made covenants with His children.5 His covenants occur throughout the entire plan of salvation and are therefore part of the fulness of His gospel.6 For example, God promised to send a Savior for His children,  asking in turn for their obedience to His law.8”

The scriptures are full of evidence of Children of the and the blessings that come from following covenants.

In the Book of Mormon we read the account of the Anti-Nephi-Lehi’s. In Alma 24 we read the account of the people of Anti-Nephi-Lehi,

"17 And now it came to pass that when the king had made an end of these sayings, and all the people were assembled together, they took their swords, and all the weapons which were used for the shedding of man’s blood, and they did bury them up deep in the earth.

18 And this they did, it being in their view a testimony to God, and also to men, that they never would use weapons again for the shedding of man’s blood; and this they did, vouching and covenanting with God, that rather than shed the blood of their brethren they would give up their own lives; and rather than take away from a brother they would give unto him; and rather than spend their days in idleness they would labor abundantly with their hands.

19 And thus we see that, when these Lamanites were brought to believe and to know the truth, they were firm, and would suffer even unto death rather than commit sin; and thus we see that they buried their weapons of peace, or they buried the weapons of war, for peace."

In these three simple verses we read the covenant and the commitment with which the covenant was made; they would die before committing sin. As we read on we learn of their unmoving faith. 

20 And it came to pass that their brethren, the Lamanites, made preparations for war, and came up to the land of Nephi for the purpose of destroying the king, and to place another in his stead, and also of destroying the people of Anti-Nephi-Lehi out of the land.

21 Now when the people saw that they were coming against them they went out to meet them, and prostrated themselves before them to the earth, and began to call on the name of the Lord; and thus they were in this attitude when the Lamanites began to fall upon them, and began to slay them with the sword.

22 And thus without meeting any resistance, they did slay a thousand and five of them; and we know that they are blessed, for they have gone to dwell with their God.

Refusing to commit sin, one thousand and five of these faithful saints gave their lives for their covenants. We read that they were blessed for they had gone to dwell with God, but what comes next to me shows the true blessings of covenant keeping.

23 Now when the Lamanites saw that their brethren would not flee from the sword, neither would they turn aside to the right hand or to the left, but that they would lie down and perish, and praised God even in the very act of perishing under the sword—

24 Now when the Lamanites saw this they did forbear from slaying them; and there were many whose hearts had swollen in them for those of their brethren who had fallen under the sword, for they repented of the things which they had done.

25 And it came to pass that they threw down their weapons of war, and they would not take them again, for they were stung for the murders which they had committed; and they came down even as their brethren, relying upon the mercies of those whose arms were lifted to slay them.

26 And it came to pass that the people of God were joined that day by more than the number who had been slain; and those who had been slain were righteous people, therefore we have no reason to doubt but what they were saved.

27 And there was not a wicked man slain among them; but there were more than a thousand brought to the knowledge of the truth; thus we see that the Lord worketh in many watts to the salvation of his people.

Refusing to commit sin, one thousand and five of these faithful saints gave their lives for their covenants—but they. were. saved! And what’s more, their covenant keeping brought more than the number that were slain to a knowledge of the truth. 

Nephi taught: “After ye have gotten into this strait and narrow path, I would ask if all is done? Behold, I say unto you, Nay. … “Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men.

Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.”7

Thirdly, pressing forward is not always easy, and the refiner’s fire often precedes the blessings of the Lord. 

In a talk given in October 2013 conference, Sister Linda Reeves from the General Relief Society Presidency spoke on claiming the blessings of our Covenants. She noted the trials that precede the crowning glory, she said:

"Almost three years ago a devastating fire gutted the interior of the beloved, historic tabernacle in Provo, Utah. Its loss was deemed a great tragedy by both the community and Church members. Many wondered, “Why did the Lord let this happen? Surely He could have prevented the fire or stopped its destruction.”

Ten months later, during the October 2011 general conference, there was an audible gasp when President Thomas S. Monson announced that the nearly destroyed tabernacle was to become a holy temple—a house of the Lord! Suddenly we could see what the Lord had always known! He didn’t cause the fire, but He allowed the fire to strip away the interior. He saw the tabernacle as a magnificent temple—a permanent home for making sacred, eternal covenants.4

My dear [brothers and] sisters, the Lord allows us to be tried and tested, sometimes to our maximum capacity. We have seen the lives of loved ones—and maybe our own—figuratively burned to the ground and have wondered why a loving and caring Heavenly Father would allow such things to happen. But He does not leave us in the ashes; He stands with open arms, eagerly inviting us to come to Him. He is building our lives into magnificent temples where His Spirit can dwell eternally.

In Doctrine and Covenants 58:3–4, the Lord tells us:

“Ye cannot behold with your natural eyes, for the present time, the design of your God concerning those things which shall come hereafter, and the glory which shall follow after much tribulation.

“For after much tribulation come the blessings. Wherefore the day cometh that ye shall be crowned with much glory.”

When we keep our covenants, we receive the promised blessings from our Heavenly Father and Savior, Jesus Christ."

Finally, covenant-center lives will make us called the Children of Christ. 

As we understand and follow God’s expectations of us, as we follow the examples of covenant-keeping people, and as we press forward, we will be called the Children of Christ.

In Mosiah 5:7 we read, "And now, because of the covenant which ye have made ye shall be called the children of Christ, his sons, and his daughters; for behold, this day he hath spiritually begotten you; for ye say that your hearts are changed through faith on his name; therefore, ye are born of him and have become his sons and his daughters.”

Brothers and Sisters, I testify to you that this is the Gospel of Jesus Christ, the Messiah and Redeemer of Mandkind. I testify that He came to this earth and that at Baptism we covenanted to follow Him. Through consecrating our lives and making and keeping sacred covenants that mark the path, we can return to our Father in Heaven and ultimately be saved. Brothers and sisters, we. can. be saved.

I testify that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the True Gospel of Jesus Christ, that it was restored by Joseph Smith, that it is led by our Savior, and that Thomas S. Monson is His Prophet on the earth. I testify that the Book of Mormon and Bible are the word of God, and that as we discover the plan of Happiness in the Scriptures, we can more perfectly follow Christ. I testify that Jesus Christ is the Savior of the World. And I say this in His name, Amen.

Chuy Got Baptized


After flying home from Denver on the 20th of September, the first thing Heidi and I did after landing was turn on the BYU vs. Virginia game. It was a great way to distract from the fact that I had only one hour to get from the airport to the church where Chuy was going to be baptized.

But, with ten minutes to spare, we made it! 

It was a wonderful service and we were so happy Chuy chose to be baptized a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He bore a great testimony and we are very proud of him!




Chuy and his peeps. (: 

Afterwards, we went to Brooklyn's for a little fun...


Where Adi met Walter, the baby deer 


And where Adi roasted marshmallows with Chuy. 

We love Chuy! 


#throwback to November 2013 - Love these two.


Monday, September 1, 2014

The Primary

In February, the bishopric called me to see if they could come over and meet with Ryan and me. I was terrified. I loved teaching the youth with Ryan and we loved our class. The majority of the class was made up of young men, and they were the best. young men. Ever. (Is ten years too big of a gap to want Adi to marry Porter... Hey. Just sayin'.) 

When the bishopric came to visit, I got emotional--and when they asked why I said I didn't want to be released. They laughed and said I was going to be anyway-ha-and then preceded to throw a curve ball from left field when they asked if I would be willing to serve as the First Counselor in the Primary Presidency. 

I was shocked. I had never been in a presidency before--not even as the Beehive Secretary years and years and years ago. 

 Of course I said yes, and this began the new adventure in the Vineyard 7th Ward.  I LOVED serving with Gail and Allison. We had an instant bond and connection and I learned so much from them in such a short period of time. 




 It was short, because our time together was short lived when in April the ward split... 

Again. :) 

 This time, I knew something was coming. And sure enough later that week, the new bishop asked if I would be willing to serve as the Primary President. Finding Counselors was one of the most difficult things I've ever done, but when all was said and done, I knew that Lindsay and Ashley were called of God to help with my weaknesses and inadequacies. 

The next two weeks before our ward met for the first time were a whirlwind. Classes, teachers, snacks, reverence treats, music leaders, etc. In all honesty, it occupied a large majority of my brain and attention that week, but when all was said and done, the primary was organized, the kids were happy, and the Spirit had room to touch the lives of our Primary children. 

Just over a week ago, I was released in preparation for our departure to Grenada. It was very bittersweet and was simply further evidence that we are leaving our beloved ward, neighborhood, and friends. It was hard to talk about it without getting a little choked up--especially as I gave my last Sharing Time and testimony. The sweet chorister, Ashley, had the kids sing my favorite Primary to me ("Sister McKenzie") and in the moment I couldn't remember if I had a "favorite", so I had them sing one of my favorites, "My Heavenly Father Loves Me". It was darling. 



I will miss those kids and those women. It was truly a pleasure to serve with them, even if it was only for a short time. Danny, the First Counselor in the Bishopric whom I had worked with before he was released the week before I was said callings come and go. Words full of wisdom. 

 Here's to new adventures and new callings.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

The Still Small Voice

Today after leaving church I felt impressed to stop by the house of my good friend, Gail, the Primary President in our sister ward. I had found a binder from their ward and wanted to return it.

I spotted by and we chatted--she had dogs there, so Adi was in Heaven.

Afterwards, as we drove away, I saw my friend's house, and felt a strong prompting to swing by, but hesitated. Again, it was so strong, so I asked Adi if she wanted to go see her friend, Annabelle.

When I knocked on the door, Jenn answered and invited us in. She was dressed up and I said she looked nice--to which she said they were blessing Baby Bailee.

"Oh yay! Can I come?" Was my exact response.

(Afterwards I thought--how rude of me!)

Jenn said of course and after a brief chat, we all headed to their Sacrament Meeting. She had mentioned who was invited to participate and had mentioned that if Ryan were in town they would have invited him--how special--it meant a lot to Ryan. They have been such good friends to us and we are grateful for their friendship!

Jenn and Dave's good friend and neighbor, Paul, blessed Bailee and it was so calm, sweet, and touching--the spirit was very strong. She is a special little girl.


I am so grateful I listened to that still small voice.



The Still Small Voice

Today after leaving church I felt impressed to stop by the house of my good friend, Gail, the Primary President in our sister ward. I had found a binder from their ward and wanted to return it.

I spotted by and we chatted--she had dogs their, so Adi was in Heaven. 

Afterwards, as we drive away, I saw my friend's house, and felt a strong prompting to swing by, but hesitated. Again, it was so strong, so I asked Adi if she wanted to go see her friend, Annabelle.

When I knocked on the door, Jenn answered and invited us in. She was dressed up and I said she looked nice--to which she said they were blessing Baby Bailee. 

"Oh yay! Can I come?" Was my exact response. 

(Afterwards I thought--how rude of me!) 

Jenn said of course and after a brief chat, we all headed to their Sacrament Meeting. It was fun because it was so many of our old friends (from our previous ward). 

Jenn and Dave's good friend and neighbor, Paul, blessed Bailee and it was so calm, sweet, and touching--the spirit was very strong. 

After the blessing I snapped a quick picture of Bailey (sinner I know!). She is darling, sweet, and so very calm. 


On our way home after the Sacrament, I offered a silent prayer to my Heavenly Father thanking him for the prompting and the opportunity I had had to be there. It was a very special day. 

Sunday, February 9, 2014

Decisions for Eternity

As members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we occasionally have the opportunity to address our entire ward (a congregation of a few hundred members within a certain geographical area). This morning, Ryan and I had the opportunity to do so and to share our thoughts on Elder Nelson's talk, "Decisions for Eternity" from the October 2013 General Conference. 

It was humbling to be asked to address the ward, especially because the talk focuses largely on the moral right and wrong that society is trying to change. Either way, I hope the Spirit touched those who were listening. 



What comes to mind when you hear the phrase decisions for eternity”? As a Career Counselor at BYU, this theme is an every-day topic. In fact, the BYU devotionals this semester have largely been themed around Elder Hale’s talk involving the tagline: “The Decade of Decision”. He says, “There is a time and season for all of our decisions. Make sure you make decisions in the proper time and season. [Many] of these life-altering decisions will be made in a very busy, relatively short period during your 20s—during what I call the “Decade of Decision.”

So, what do I think of when I think decisions for eternity”? I think “Marriage!” “Career!”

But, what happens after some of those monumental or tangible decisions are in the past? What happens when we are past the so-called “Decade of Decision?” Or enter the “endure-to-the-end” stage?

In the talk titled “Decisions for Eternity” from this past conference, Elder Nelson teaches us that each day is a day of decision and that the wise use of our freedom to choose is crucial to our spiritual growth now and for eternity. He references some decisions that will determine our eternal destiny such as how we choose to care for and use our bodies and which spiritual attributes we will choose to develop.

As I’ve considered this idea of developing our spiritual attributes and making decisions affecting not only now but eternity as well, I connected the idea of line upon line, precept upon precept and about the life span of our decision-making abilities. I thought of the first opportunity we know of where we exercised our agency and chose to follow God’s plan and come to earth. How did we make that decision? Did we pray? Did we ponder? Did we discuss it with our brothers and sister? Or Did we just know? Then and now and in the future we have the opportunity to make decisions, some of which will determine our eternal destinies. As we realize the eternal significance of many of our decisions, we have tender mercies to guide us, I have identified three:

First, we can refer to scriptural examples of decision-making. We can review the context around ancient and modern prophets’ decisions and make better decisions for ourselves based on their examples. For example, when Nephi returned to Jerusalem for the third time, he said, “I was lead by the spirit, not knowing beforehand the things which I should do. Nevertheless, I went forth.” Nephi’s time to act had come, and he knew the spirit would direct him. He was living worthily and had trust in the Lord. As we apply this example to our lives, we might ask ourselves, “am I living sufficiently worthy to be led by the spirit?” Do I have the trust in the Lord that I need to know that I will be guided by His spirit?

The second tender mercy our Heavenly Father has provided us as we make decisions is/are spiritual promptings. Our Heavenly Father knows us. We were chosen by Him to come to earth at this precise time to be a leader in His great work on the earth. We were chosen not for our bodily characteristics but for our spiritual attributes, such as bravery, courage, integrity of heart, a thirst for truth, a hunger for wisdom, and a desire to serve others. He can and will lead and guide us as we seek to follow him. 

In the BYU devotional address this past Tuesday, Elder Perkins of the Seventy highlighted the three type of spiritual promptings or confirmations that we can receive as we ask for guidance. He says that the first way we can receive an answer is through a peaceful, comforting assurance that the decision we made was right. The second is the absence of peace; the unsettled feeling (and not always a stupor) that perhaps the decision is wrong. The third Elder Perkins says is the no-response, proceed-with-trust example such as is the case with the previous example of Nephi trusting in the Lord. This tender mercy and knowledge of personal promptings and confirmations can help us as we inventory whether or not we are on the right path. 

If, for example, we were to apply this example to our lives, we might ask in our hearts and minds something like whether participating in x activity on the Sabbath is keeping the Sabbath day holy—we can and will receive the spiritual confirmation that will guide us to be closer to the spirit.

3.  Thirdly, we can consider the unchanging truths of God’s laws. In Elder Nelson’s talk, he highlights the relationship between our mortal bodies and our spirits, and that not surprisingly, most temptations to stray from God’s plan come from misuse of essential, God-given appetites. Brothers and Sisters, we know that we are free to choose liberty and eternal life, through the great Mediator of all men, or to choose captivity and death. Yet, too often, we might be more concerned with the pressures of society than God’s laws. In another conference address this past October, Elder Oaks states “man’s laws cannot make moral what God has declared immoral.” The degradation of God’s moral laws may seem unimportant as they become widely accepted within society at large, but we know this is not the case. Sin, even if legalized by man, is still sin in the eyes of God!

As we apply this to our daily lives we can ask ourselves if we are patterning our lives and examples to others after God’s moral laws. Are we living His commandments? Are we supporting His doctrines?

Knowing how to make good decisions is essential to our Eternal growth. Elder Nelson helps us to recognize that self-mastery is the other half. He says,” self-mastery builds a strong conscience. And your conscience determines your moral responses in difficult, tempting, and trying situations.” He also points out that we can develop self-mastery as we persistently seek it, “We can change our behavior. Our very desires can change. How? There is only one way. True change—permanent change—can come only through the healing, cleansing, and enabling power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. He loves you—each of you! He allows you to access His power as you keep His commandments, eagerly, earnestly, and exactly. It is that simple and certain. The gospel of Jesus Christ is a gospel of change!"

As he closes His talk, Elder Nelson states, “My dear brothers and sisters, each day is a day of decision, and our decisions determine our destiny. One day each of us will stand before the Lord in judgment. We will each have a personal interview with Jesus Christ. We will account for decisions that we made about our bodies, our spiritual attributes, and how we honored God’s pattern for marriage and family.”

Brothers and Sisters, I recognize that decisions determine destiny. I recognize that our agency gives us the freedom to make decisions. As we traverse the endure-to-the-end stage, I pray that we might remember our first decision to follow God’s plan. That we might follow our Savior, Jesus Christ, and that we might lean on the many guiding tender mercies that He has provided.

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Adi's First Primary Talk

We are so proud of the little Binx. She did such a great job! 

"Heavenly Father loves me, and Heavenly Father loves you. Because He loves us, He wants us to live with him forever.

Part of God's plan is to follow the commandments and Jesus Christ. The commandments are God's rules for our Happiness and Jesus is our older brother and Savior.

Another part of God's plan is Eternal Families. Heavenly Father gave us families to be happy and to help us make it back to Him in Heaven.

I love my family and my Heavenly Father. I know he loves me and has plan for me. 

I say this in the name of Jesus Christ, amen."

Sunday, September 29, 2013

Thoughts on the Mo-Fem Movement…

Someone today asked me about how I felt about the "Ordain Women" movement of a group of LDS women. While I recognize this as a possibly controversial issue, I wanted to express my personal and heart-felt thoughts: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints proclaims that women and men have an equal partnership before The Lord. 

When individuals misunderstand that women's and men's responsibilities need to be equal, pride is getting in the way. 

Equality and equity are two completely different ideas: equity indicates fairness and equality indicates. sameness (e.g., If I need a pair of shoes and you need a pair of shoes and someone gives me blue shoes that fit and someone gives you red shoes that fit what we have is equity. If, however, I demand equality, I will be given the same red shoes that you have, even if they don't fit.) 

God's Plan is perfect. The Priesthood is the responsibility of men in the church. That is by divine design. I know that together with my husband we are able to lead our family where we need to be.

Finally, for those more intellectual and scholarly arguments. The word Elohim in Hebrew references the plural of God (El) and means exalted husband and wife. The implications of this idea are deep and far reaching. However, the most important point to me is that this demonstrates that for my eternal happiness and salvation my husband and I must work extensively together. And, that without one another we are stagnant, imperfect, and unable to progress and live with God again.

Friday, July 26, 2013

Patterns of Light

I have been thinking about the message of this video and especially the thought, "Sometimes, receiving inspiration is like a foggy day." It resonates with me. Things are not always immediately clear, but they seem to work out with hard work, faith, and prayer.


I later read in 2 Peter 1: 19-21:

 19 aWe have also a more bsure word of cprophecy; whereunto ye do well that ye take heed, as unto a light that shineth in a dark place, until the day dawn, and the day dstar arise in your hearts:
 20 Knowing this first, that ano bprophecy of the cscripture is of any private dinterpretation.
 21 For the aprophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God bspake as they were cmoved by the dHoly Ghost.
How grateful I am for living prophets who receive inspiration from God and for the companionship of the Holy Ghost who helps guide my life through foggy days. 

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Life is Fragile

It's Tuesday morning and I'm grateful for life. I'm grateful for the Gospel. I'm grateful for a forever family.

Yesterday, less than 24 hours after our ward was created, tragedy struck when a sister from our ward died after complications from childbirth. While reports are mixed and varied, my understanding is that she had placenta previa, and complications occurred during surgery.

She is survived by her husband, six children including a new, tiny son, and countless family members, friends, and community members.

I say countless because since first hearing the news yesterday, Facebook has been a flurry of unity and outpouring of love and support for her and her family from all walks of life and throughout the community. She sounds like she is an amazing person. I'm sad that I didn't have the pleasure of knowing her in this life.

I'm sad too that her family will endure what my cousins endured three years ago. The loss of a sister. A daughter. A mother. A wife. This morning I was reminded of Sheri's death and how much she. is. missed., even after three years. I imagine that the sting will never truly be healed until we meet our maker.

I am grateful that families can be together forever. I know God lives, that Jesus is the Christ, and that through the Atonement all that is unfair in this life (even death) will be made right.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Change (is a good thing)

Last week we learned that our ward (the Vineyard 2nd Ward) and another ward (the Vineyard 6th Ward) would combine for sacrament meeting this week. It could really only meant one thing (ward boundary changes), but we could only speculate.

Ryan and I guessed that our subdivision might be taken and put into another ward, but like I said, speculation.

Ryan and I put it out of our minds until yesterday when discussing the possibility of changes with Ryan's family. I'd heard some crazy stories of ward changes, but never been involved in one. Like many wards in Utah, our ward is [geographically] very small, in fact as the crow flies, we're less than a mile away from the farthest point in any direction. Being that close, I told myself that regardless of the change, we're likely going to see each other at neighborhood events, girl's nights, and even on everyday occasions. I couldn't help but balk at the idea of being super emotional, but I also couldn't have anticipated the feelings that I would actually have when hearing the news.

Turns out, we were right. Today the Vineyard 7th Ward was created and our subdivision was combined with some new construction areas here by the golf course. I had mixed feelings. 

A new ward. Leaving our old ward. I hadn't thought about what it would really mean. I hadn't really realized my attachment to the Vineyard 2nd Ward and what it meant to me. To us.

I had the privilege of teaching Sunday School today about the Sabbath and more specifically the Sacrament. No matter where we go, the Sacrament will be the same. It's such a comforting feeling to know that it is a never-changing constant in our lives. It is evidence of the fullness of the truth found in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

At the end of the lesson I bore my testimony and was able to verbalize my gratitude for the Vineyard 2nd Ward. They were welcoming. They were open, kind, and loving. They have break-the-fasts. In a family ward. It is a ward. family. Regardless of where we go tomorrow or twenty years from now I will always be grateful for the incredible visiting teachers, home teachers, and ward members who helped us further build our testimonies and gave us opportunities to serve.

Like I said, we're less than a mile away, so we will continue to build and foster the relationships with our friends in the Vineyard 2nd Ward.

But, like our new ward clerk, Brother Davis, said, change is good.

We are looking forward to new opportunities for growth, new callings, and most importantly the opportunity to build and foster relationships with our new friends in the Vineyard 7th Ward.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Tinted or Tainted


Each of us views the world through a different set of lenses. Our gender, religion, ethnicity, and nationality are all lenses. And, alongside, our experiences craft lenses that either tint or taint our views of the world.

I wrote this post a couple of years ago, and I recognize that as one who has not struggled with infertility, my thoughts then and/or now might be misunderstood or brushed aside.

While my experience with infertility is only from secondary, anecdotal sources, I have enough information to draw two sociological conclusions:  Sometimes, when we (i.e., society) are un-sensitive (not to be confused with in-sensitive) to a certain topic, we alienate others. Sometimes, when we (i.e., society) are sensitive to a certain topic, we alienate others. 

This is especially true with infertility.

Referring back to my June 2011 post, that positive cousin of Ryan's has since seen her promise come to fruition through adoption. Likewise I have met (or know) many more couples who have adopted or conceived after long battles with infertility. On the other hand, I have seen some couples undergo excruciating suffering (physically, mentally, emotionally) as they have lost child after child. 

I may never know their pain directly, but do I know that through the Atonement all that is unfair in the world will be made right in Christ Jesus. 

So, next time someone says, "let's kick all the pregnant ladies" or something about a "malicious, April Fool's pregnancy joke" or announces that they're pregnant, or mentions the loss of a pregnancy, realize that regardless of what anyone ever says, you will view the world through a set of lenses. 

The choice is yours however as to whether they're tinted or tainted

Monday, April 1, 2013

Easter {Sunday} Around These Parts


Our Easter {Sunday} was even better.

I woke up super early (5:45am) to finish working on my Sunday School lesson, and enjoyed the opportunity to draw closer to the Savior as I studied the Gospel in the early-morning hours.

I even came across this wonderful video that emphasizes so perfectly the Risen Lord.


I finished planning my lesson and woke Adi up to watch this video again with me--it was neat to see the cogs turning as we revisited that Christ died on a cross and was resurrected.

He truly lives!



Before heading to church, the Easter Bunny came and brought this little girl and her mamma and dadda some fun surprises. (As an aside... I love surprises and I especially Santa Clause and now the Easter Bunny. While some are hesitant to put emphasis on these traditions, we further emphasize that the Easter Bunny brings gifts to remind us that Christ is the greatest gift of all.) 


Ready to see what the Easter Bunny brought! #easterfun


Easter is fun for us too... #easterfun



I love holiday traditions and surprises! #easterfun

While the candy, nail polish, and shoes (not pictured) were fun, she was definitely in love with her bike that accompanied her Easter basket.

We had a wonderful time at church learning about our Savior. My day was made when Ryan told me that Adi had been listening to her nursery lesson and when Brother Whiting had said something along the lines of "After three days Jesus was resurrected," Adi looked at Ryan and said, "Mamma was right!" So cute. Definitely one of those mothering highlights.

After church, we snapped a couple Easter-dress pictures...


[This was her reaction to] Contrails. #wow

Before we enjoyed a nice Sunday afternoon walk. 

This time, Adi rode... 


Sunday stroll. Now maybe she can keep up. ;) #mylittlegirl


The Easter Bunny brought this little lady a bike. She can't get enough of it.
#taughtherselftorideitinfiveminutes #spoiled #mylittlegirl #easterfun



We broke it up by taking glamour shots and capturing our new Easter/Spring wreath...



Happy Easter! #easterfun #home


Mommy and baby. #loveher


Kissy kissy. #mylittlegirl #mytlittlegirlisafashionista



Mid-afternoon we headed up to Farmington... 



Sleeping on our way to grandmother's house. :) #mylittlegirl

For the next set of festivities to begin... 



Egg-hunting cousins. #easterfun #mylittlegirl

Easter flip flops, outfits, and bubbles! 

 

So many bubbles.

And more bubbles! 


A quiet, fun Easter afternoon with cousins and bubbles. Life couldn't get better for these three.
 #cousins #easterfun #bubbles @eclawso

And even more bubbles! 


Bubble zone. #bubbles

Not to mention delicious and even colorful food! 


Yummy? Yummy. #easterfun #nofilter @eclawso is amazing.


All in all we had a wonderful weekend filled with family, friends, and important message that:

Christ the Lord is Risen Today! 

Dear Elder Lawyer...

After getting home Tuesday night, Wednesday was a very special day.


As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, each young man or woman has the opportunity to dedicate 18 months to two years to full-time proselytizing and preaching as a "missionary". They teach Christianity and the Gospel of Jesus Christ throughout the world. While I didn't choose to serve one, my husband, father, and two of my three brothers served (along with countless other cousins, grandparents, and friends).

Future missionaries don't choose where they go. In fact, they have no idea until they open their personalized letter, from the Prophetcalling them to serve the Lord and assigning them to a specific mission. Anywhere in the world.  

So, Wednesday during the day, we started by making our picks... 



From Istanbul to Toronto and from Barcelona to Sydney we guessed where Nathan would be assigned... 

That night, with Ryan on speaker phone (he was at a class he couldn't get out of), Nate opened his call.

Drumroll... 

"Dear Elder Lawyer,  
You are hereby called to serve as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. You are assigned to labor in the GERMANY BERLIN MISSION. It is anticipated that you will serve for a period of 24 months.  
You should report to the England Missionary Training Center on Thursday, July 25, 2013. You will prepare to preach the gospel in the German language. Your assignment may be modified according to the needs of the mission president."
(Germany happens to be the second largest concentration of Turkish-speakers.)

(Nate happens to speak Turkish.)


Germany Berlin Mission - July 25, 2013

So proud of my "little" brother. He's going to be a great missionary! 

Congratulations Nate! Go get 'em!

Our Family

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